freenbecky real life issue
So, i like to start by telling i will continue my story, i love them both their personal life it's not my buiness, but everyone feeelings are valid if you want cry do it if you want to scream do it if you hate them it's your right but guys we don't know them personally, we don't know how their life are and ultimately we don't know how they feel about it but bullying through social media i thinks it's about too much again it's my point of view you don't have too agree with me everyone cope how they can and don't forget your feelings are valid and if you feel it's like too much too handle it talk about it stay off of the social media, take a walk go out with friends, just have some fun and keep your mind out of this .
that's being said i understand both side of the story, but let me tell you i live something similiar with my ex best friends and i wanted to share it with you.
Story time lol so in my teenages years i started to have a friend we meet through mutual friends in high school and we clicked instantly she was older than me, we were way more clingy than freen and becky, always cuddling,flirting with each other in public, texting all day and night, first thing in the morning we text each other,holding each other hands, sitting in each other lap, we even exchanged pecks sometime, we named each other wives on ours phone calling ouserves with cute name. I used to wait for her when she off to work, she used to fetch me from school we spends a lot time together, everyone finds our relationship strange but for us we were just bestfriends. when first i discorvered i was also attracted to girls she was here for me as a suport when her ex break her heart i was there for her.
It's true sometimes we show jealousy when someone started to get to close to one of us but it was more the fear of loosing each other, but we always respect each other when the other was in relationship, even giving each other love advice so yeah it was really a true friendship. So that why i feel i was a play child what they were doing together the difference between their situation and mine it just they're celebrity.
But, yeah a but was definetly coming, people started question our friendship, everyone started '' shipping us together'' always awn uou looks so cute together or why didn't you just kiss things like that and so on, when i tell you everyone it was everyone even my family and hers they started to think we dated each other in secret it was out of control. Everytime we just go out of a relationship, they tell us why we jsut don't started dated each other, but we didn't see ourselves like that we, were just friends.
but you know the more time passed, the more it took a tool on our relationship, you know when you're 18 discovering your sexuality, and everyone started mess you head it can lead to bad things, so i started to question my feeling for her, sure i found her beautiful but i was never attracted to her sexually, we always supported each other and more close than ever, but it started to affect her relationship with her boyfriend to the point out of respect i started to take my distance with her, i admit it did hurt imagined knowing someone since you was 14 years old til 20 years old and lost her because people assumption she was my confident and me hers we lost a lot in this process.
we try to keep touch through years texting each other but not as often like before, until it was just for birthday,then just greetings when we see each other in town to nothing, we didn't follow each other through social media now. And now i'm 29 years old the scars it still here but i survived.
I tell my story to tell you guys don't put your expectation on someone else relationship, because i thik they're also hurt by the situation, i know it might be hard because a lot people project themselves into them, but at the ed of the day we watch them through a screen, we don't know their real feelings, live your live the fullest and not through someone life.
Personally for me i started to follow them because i thought their friendship was cute, i laugh a lot watching them interact, i love all the teasing around them, and i admit i saw my past friendship in them, did i expect them to end together of fucking course because they were cute together. Do i think it was fan service? Not really i think they really behave like that behind the doors. Do i think becky was unware of the situation? no of course she knew they tell us themselve they know everything about each other. Do i think that freen is still with seng i don't know man, i really don't know, even if i found something strange in the whole story but only futur would tell us.
Do i think they can handle the situation better yes of course they litteraly trhow freen under the bus. But i found some people unfair you blame freen for fan service but not becky? And what if you found that becky was having someone too? if it was fan service it takes two people to do that, so yeah but i don't hate them love is love and at the end we are just people behind a screen who doesn't know them in private it's always more easy to judge, guys be kind it's free.
Do i think some people gone overboard, absolutely, but we're not their shoes so i won't judge.
Do I think some people exagerate by making like freen is a bad people by editing video yeah of course.
And i'm not disregarding anyone feelings, i respect how you feel, your feelings are always valid i guess i'm just someone who is tolerant, but respect each other guys don't go on war with each other,don't insult each other, don't put your mental health at risks for something like that and don't judge the people who want to stay and the people who want to leave everyone is free to do whatever they want but guys please leave the toxity behind you don't forget how her mental health even before this whole mess i will leave it at that.
if you asked how i cope with it i cope with humour, following the accounts who doesn't throw hate for no reason, watching the old video and when i found still laughing as hard as before, i think i might stay delulu for some times lmao
Admittly i love certain fans who take this with humour i find myself laughing with their memes and edit and their theory of complot lmao this is how i cope because i don't love to see hate.
and last point i have my own opinion of what might happened, but i don't want influence anyone with my own conclusion, so yeah i will still stay here writting for whoever want to read it, thanks to them i have the guts to publish my story for the first time so i will never have any ill feelings towards any of them. I just they will be strong enough to maintain their friendships because i have the feelings that it might be destroye their beautiful connection but i hope i'm wrong but i know they can goes through this.
oh i almost forget did i still ship them together, yeah because why not? sometimes we can be friends for years before and ending together when noone expect lol let me be delulu guys FBPFK forever lmao.
Be kind, love ourselves, and stay healthy guys love you, Stay strong