A = Affection (How affectionate are they? How do they show affection?)
Remus will give you hugs, small kisses on the cheek, pecks, and hold your hand. There’ll always be some sort of physical intimacy between you.
B = Best friend (What would they be like as a best friend? How would the friendship start?)
Your friendship would start on the Hogwarts express in your first year. There weren’t any other seats left, so you ended up sitting next to him.
He’d never take you for granted. He’d always give you gifts, even if it was his birthday.
C = Cuddles (Do they like to cuddle? How would they cuddle?)
He loves to cuddle you all the time. If you’re in public he’d hold your hand, or wrap an arm around your waist. If you’re in private he’d find all blankets, duvets, and pillows in the house, and cuddle up to you. If you ever have an argument, you’d wake up to him cuddling you, even if he slept on the other side of the Earth.
D = Domestic (Do they want to settle down? How are they at cooking and cleaning?)
This man has some Gordon Ramsay type skills when it comes to cooking. Whenever he cooks you get a foodgasm. Every. Single. Time. He’d love to settle down. He loves kids, and would love to have them. He wouldn’t force you to get children. If you don’t want children he will beg you for a cat though.
E = Ending (If they had to break up with their partner, how would they do it?)
He’d do it in a private place, with flowers, and chocolate. I’d be a place nice enough to know he cares, but not so fancy you’ll think he’s about to propose. He’ll make it clear that you’re not the reason of the break up, but he is.
F = Fiance(e) (How do they feel about commitment? How quick would they want to get married?)
I could see him proposing at year 5, but thought about proposing since the 1st date, and having bought the ring 3 years prior to the proposal.
G = Gentle (How gentle are they, both physically and emotionally?)
He’s very gentle. With literally anything. He’d hold a hammer like it’s a newborn baby. Around full moons he easily snaps, though after he’s recovered, he makes sure you know he never meant to snap at you.
H = Hugs (Do they like hugs? How often do they do it? What are their hugs like?)
Any time you see this man he will hug you. Anything from his arms around your waist, to bear hugs that take your breath away.
I = I love you (How fast do they say the L-word?)
He would say it after the honeymoon phase is over. As much as he wants to say it before the first 6 months are over, he wants to make sure his words are the same as his feelings.
J = Jealousy (How jealous do they get? What do they do when they’re jealous?)
He trusts you, and knows you’d never cheat, although he easily gets jealous if he sees someone else flirting with you. He’ll walk up to you, and put an arm around your waist. If he’s feeling extra jealous, he wrap his arms around your waist from behind, and trail kisses on your neck.
K = Kisses (What are their kisses like? Where do they like to kiss you? Where do they like to be kissed?)
His kisses are always sweet, and gentle. Though as sweet, and gentle as they are, if he’s desperate for some action he’s gonna go rough with those kisses. I'm talking his tongue almost down your throat.
He loves kissing you everywhere. He’ll kiss your belly if you’re pregnant, he’ll kiss any place you’re insecure. He’ll pepper your entire body with kisses.
He loves getting kissed on his neck, and cheek. He loves getting little kisses on his chest efter sex. He loves giving, and receiving love bites.
L = Little ones (How are they around children?)
Remus loves children. He is amazing around them. He treats them like children but talk to them like they’re actual human beings. He’s always wanted children, though he’s scared he’ll pass his lycanthropy down to them, even though it isn’t hereditary.
M = Morning (How are mornings spent with them?)
Lots of cuddles. According to him, a morning isn’t good if at least one of you isn’t late for work. This man will have some sort of physical touch on you until not possible.
N = Night (How are nights spent with them?)
Again - Lots of cuddles. He will take any type of intimacy he can get, even if it’s just sleeping in the same bed.
O = Open (When would they start revealing things about themselves? Do they say everything all at once or wait a while to reveal things slowly?)
He’d never date someone he wasn’t open with. With friends it’s different. He’d open up to his friends over time, a few years perhaps, but he’d never date someone that doesn’t know about his troubles.
P = Patience (How easily angered are they?)
This man has the most patience in the world. He’d happily stare at a computer screen for hours on end to get you concert tickets, or a gift you’ve been wishing for forever. Around the full moon he does get a little bit impatient, but he tries his best to remain patient.
Q = Quizzes (How much would they remember about you? Do they remember every little detail you mention in passing, or do they kind of forget everything?)
He would remember everything. If he heard you tell your friends a decade ago, before you were barely friends, that your dream wedding was in a castle in Germany, then you better believe you’re getting married in a castle in Germany. Of course things can slip his mind at times, but it’s never the important things.
R = Remember (What is their favorite moment in your relationship?)
Any moment you’re alone. Going on a walk by the water or in the park, cooking or baking together, cuddling in bed late at night, he loves them all. He loves any moment where he sees your smile, or hears your laughter. He loves any moment where you can be yourself without the worry of other people’s opinion or judgement.
S = Security (How protective are they? How would they protect you? How would they like to be protected?)
He isn’t overly protective, but if you’re anywhere were other people are, his arm is around your waist, or he’s holding your hand. He doesn’t mind getting protected by you, and he’d never deny you standing up for him.
When it comes to kids, his own or others, he isn’t a helicopter parent. He’s protective, but also let kids live their live without getting monitored every second of the day.
T = Try (How much effort would they put into dates, anniversaries, gifts, everyday tasks?)
He puts effort into the relationship like he’s gonna fall dead the next day. Every Monday you wake up to a new bouquet in the vase on your nightstand to mark a new week into your relationship. He’d take you out at least every 2 weeks, not necessarily a fancy restaurant, it could also just be a walk in the park, or watching a movie, and cuddling on the couch.
U = Ugly (What would be some bad habits of theirs?)
He doesn’t believe he’s worth much. No matter how much you tell him you love him, there’s some doubt in him about how much he deserves to live. He’s scared he’d turn someone into a werewolf, especially a young child.
V = Vanity (How concerned are they with their looks?)
He’s not that concerned. He doesn’t really care about looks. He’s got you, and that’s enough for him. He does however check up on his scars every day to make sure there isn’t an infection in any of them. When he was younger he was very insecure about his scars, but that changed when he met James, Sirius, and Peter, but most importantly - you.
W = Whole (Would they feel incomplete without you?)
He would feel incredibly incomplete without you. He always had to hide his lycanthropy from everyone, and when Sirius, James, and Peter came along he realised they were actual people who didn’t mind his condition. When you came along, and confessed your feelings it was like nothing mattered anymore. His heart would break if you left him, but he also wouldn’t force you to stay.
X = Xtra (A random headcanon for them.)
Dinosaur obsessed. He may not know algebra, but he knows all dinosaur species, and what time in the day they would take a shit.
Y = Yuck (What are some things they wouldn’t like, either in general or in a partner?)
People who care too much to be perfect. He likes the awkward, and embarrassing moments in life, where you get reminded of life, and that nothing is picture perfect. He also doesn’t like minimalist people. One thing is wanting a neat house, another thing is wanting your house to look like no one lives there.
Z = Zzz (What is a sleep habits of theirs?)
Since you started sleeping in the same bed he gets enough sleep, but before, or when you’re away, he goes back to his old habits of getting 2 hours of sleep. He’ll sleep an entire day before, and after the full moon from pure exhaustion.