Chapter 1
Hello fellow Cynthiana people. I guess I'll start by saying this isn't a story. Its a just a place to ask some question and notice some tendency.
Normally I mind my business. Celebrity relationships are fickle and come a dime a dozen. But we all have gotten quite attached to these particular people. And I have been sensing the crash out for months. Shit since I saw the unusual closeness between the co-stars. Now at first I honestly brushed it off. I truly did. One I don't follow A. I never listened to her music and couldn't tell ONE song she ever wrote or song. I missed her entire sting on the Voice.
Maybe because I'm a little older and my pop music flavors all came in the Britney/Pink/Christina/TLC age.
I knew of C because of the Play and her talent. But she was basically a maybe B level star. She could definitely walk the streets in certain cities unscathed. Not the case now.
And of course I knew of L. She was more visible because of her shows on Netflix and standing in the black Hollywood community. I mean every black person I know watches or watched the Chi....
Full disclosure. Ive had ONE girlfriend in my life. But I remember everything that led up to it and after and during. All those feelings. Which is why I could never get on board with "just sisters" bullshit. But I did consult with many other lesbians. LOL. I had to find out if I was tripping. I was in fact..NOT TRIPPING.
I gotta keep it real. Man or Woman I can spot a lying cheat a mile away. It's a talent in my family. We know the bullshitters.
Body Language. I don't need to get into it. WE ALL KNOW what we see between C and A as
And inability to pipe down about the other person you feeling (love, infatuated )with
More damning- the things that were said in articles was down right scandalous. This was mainly from C side. They're both in Relationships BUT she was the one who seemed
the most affected by the other person A.
Even the public could see something was missing in the relationship. She was clearly not getting something fundamental and A was giving it to in spades. EMOTIONALLY.
Now emotional cheating is worse than physical cheating sometimes. Because it involves your heart. And once you lose a woman's heart. Its over. I don't care how long her body stays present.
Which brings us to L's crash outs.
exhibit A- She went out her way to be between them in award shows
exhibit b- blind item about a couple fighting before the oscars begin. Said person is a A list actress and performed and also foreign born.
exhibit c-the instagram post. WILD PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR, Almost all post come after something C tweeted Ari related. The near kiss pic caused and epic crash out.
-Anyone that post Beyonce Lemonade is not being subtle at all. another post calling out co stars that had a affair (Whoopi and Ted Dansen post) a post asking could you forgive cheating...tf... and last night a post talking about Monogamy and Side chicks. along with a video clip -my souls been ruptured.
In this crash out. L actually post a GREEN HEART over the part where the speaker says the "World has conditioned us to be dishonest about our true nature). How we are biologically wired. Monogamy is choice and some people have been shamed into going agains their nature and lie about it. It goes on to say that having an extra person that they don't have to deal with directly and the cheater gets what the need and comes home to appreciate what they have. BUT the argument to that brought by the other speaker was that what if it don't work out that way. The more time you spend with the side chick the more you get attached and that rarely saves a relationship. Also the speaker said that Cheater is the one who is messing up the relationship but not keeping to the rules. They end with the speaker saying, They never knew how to spread themselves between 2 people like that and that it ruined their relationship in the end.
So there we have it. Like I been saying the slow burn crash out has been happening. And I truly wonder if there was not Wicked Part 2 would this relationship still be floating.
Lastly. C posted a cryptic tweet she NEVER post like that. and then all this bullshit dropped from L within hours. Smh.
Lesbians are truly messy. LOL
So. at this point.